In a recent episode of Penny for Your Shots, I had the privilege of talking to Ashley Meyer—a woman of remarkable strength and determination. From serving in the Air Force to becoming a business and confidence coach, Ashley’s story is one of resilience, rediscovery, and finding purpose. She reminds us all that the hero we’re searching for is often staring back at us in the mirror.

A Journey of Courage and Transformation

Ashley’s story begins in Iowa, where she grew up in a traditional, religious household. Despite challenges, including navigating her identity in an environment that wasn’t always accepting, Ashley found strength in her authenticity. She joined the Air Force at a pivotal time in her life, using the opportunity to explore the world, serve others, and gain clarity about who she was.

"The Air Force taught me discipline, confidence, and how to thrive in the face of uncertainty," Ashley shared.

The Hero in the Mirror

For Ashley, the concept of the “hero in the mirror” is deeply personal. She believes that every individual has a version of themselves they can be proud of—a hero who has navigated life’s challenges with courage and grace. This realization didn’t come easily but through years of self-reflection, growth, and acceptance.

"The most vulnerable parts of me—the ones I thought were weaknesses—are the ones I now stand on with pride," Ashley explained.

From Productivity to Playfulness

One of the most compelling parts of our conversation was Ashley’s belief in leading with fun. Having worked in roles that prioritized productivity over joy, she understands the value of letting go and embracing life’s lighter moments. Whether through coaching, hosting her podcast, or navigating challenges, Ashley advocates for integrating playfulness into daily life.

"We thrive when we have fun. Solutions come when we stop white-knuckling through life and just let go," she said.

Faith, Identity, and Empowerment

Ashley’s path has also been one of spiritual growth. Raised in a religious setting, she had to reconcile her faith with her identity. Over time, she let go of traditional definitions and embraced a broader sense of divinity—one that celebrates love, compassion, and authenticity.

"Faith is about believing in the best version of yourself and others. It’s about love, connection, and being true to who you are," she reflected.

What’s Next for Ashley

Ashley’s vision for the future is inspiring. Her goals for the year include reaching a $100,000 milestone in her coaching business, helping clients discover their inner hero, and continuing to grow her podcast, Hero in the Mirror. She’s committed to creating spaces where people feel seen, supported, and empowered to step into their best selves.

"I’m here to hold space for people to realize their potential and guide them toward their unique version of success," Ashley said with conviction.

Closing Thoughts: Becoming Your Own Hero

Ashley’s journey is a testament to the power of resilience, self-discovery, and joy. Her story encourages us all to reflect on the hero within, embrace our vulnerabilities, and find the courage to live authentically. Whether through her coaching, podcast, or personal journey, Ashley inspires us to look in the mirror and see the potential staring back at us.

Ashley is taking on new coaching clients and you can contact her through her website:
https://herointhemirror.com/ 
Follow her on Instagram @fierceashleymiller
More ways to connect: https://linktr.ee/fierceashleymeyer

Referenced in the show, the Hal Elrod Savers: https://miraclemorning.com/